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Taylor Swift
She recently had her say in the prologue for her upcoming album, 1989 (Taylor’s Version), and fans have been reacting.
According to her, she simply decided to stop hanging out with guys because it seemed like people concluded she was sleeping with all the guys she was hanging out with.
Taylor added that she thought chilling with her female friends would stop the slut-shaming, but they began to call her a lesbian immediately.
Her words, “It became clear to me that for me there was no such thing as casual dating, or even having a male friend who you platonically hang out with.
If I was seen with him, it was assumed I was sleeping with him. And so, I swore off hanging out with guys. Dating, flirting, or anything that could be weaponized against me by a culture that claimed to believe in liberating women but consistently treated me with the harsh moral codes of the Victorian era.
I swore off dating and decided to focus only on myself, my music, my growth, and my female friendships. If I only hung out with my female friends, people couldn’t sensationalize or sexualize that right? I would learn later on that people could and people would.”
WOW.
Taylor Alison Swift (born December 13, 1989) is an American singer-songwriter. Recognized for her songwriting, musical versatility, artistic reinventions, and influence on the music industry, she is a prominent cultural figure of the 21st century.
Taylor Alison Swift was born on December 13, 1989, in West Reading, Pennsylvania. She is named after singer-songwriter James Taylor. Her father, Scott Kingsley Swift, is a former stockbroker for Merrill Lynch and her mother, Andrea Gardner Swift (née Finlay), is a former homemaker who previously worked as a mutual fund marketing executive. Taylor has a younger brother, actor Austin Swift.
Their maternal grandmother, Marjorie Finlay, was an opera singer. Swift has Scottish, German and Italian heritage.
One of Swift’s earliest memories of music is listening to her grandmother, Marjorie Finlay, sing in church. As a child, she enjoyed Disney film soundtracks: “My parents noticed that, once I had run out of words, I would just make up my own.” Swift said she owes her confidence and “fascination with writing and storytelling” to her mother, who helped her prepare for class presentations as a child.
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